December 19, 2007

How To Gain Time and Energy Back in Your Day

Let’s face it one of the biggest challenges facing busy people today is how to fit everything you need to do into a day. From the demands of raising a family, meeting deadlines at work, giving quality time to a relationship, exercising, looking after your health and taking time-out each day for yourself it can be a struggle to find enough time to even get a good nights sleep.

 

There’s a ton of material already available on how to maximize your time and get more done each day through setting priorities, being more organized and planning for the future so let’s look at some more left-of-field strategies that’ll give you an even better opportunity to gain back precious time and energy while giving long-term stress relief.

 

Stress Management Tips to Save Time and Energy 

 

Waste Not, Want Not

 

We all have the same 24 hours a day at our disposal. The difference is how wisely you use it. Why waste a precious second on something that has no value or meaning in your life? The more you choose to use the time you do have that’s brings you joy and fulfilment, the more satisfying your life will be.

 

Live Each Moment Fully

 

What do you think is going to matter most when you’re laying on your deathbed looking back over your life? Will it be how many sales you made at work? Or how clean you kept your house? Or how many things you didn’t get done? Probably not! Make each moment count as you never know when your last moment will be.

 

Don’t Forget to Take Time-Out Each Day

 

No matter how busy or hectic your life gets it’s vital that you give yourself 5, 10 or 20 minutes a day just being with yourself. This time allows you to reflect on your day and do whatever it is that brings you joy or helps you to relax. Relaxation techniques that progressively relax the muscles of your body while calming your mind are well worth investing time in.

 

Stop Telling Yourself You Don’t Have Enough Time

 

The more you affirm what you don’t have, the more you will attract it into your life. One of life’s laws is that what you focus on you get. So when you focus on what you don’t have, you will have even less in the future. Instead, start affirming that you have an abundance of time and energy to get everything done that matters.

 

Stop Wearing a Watch

 

Put away your watch for the next seven days in either a cupboard or dresser.  I did this for a period of three months and by the end of this time my internal clock had me waking up in the morning, getting to appointments and being where I needed to be in perfect timing. At first, this may stress you out a little but after 7 days you’ll experience a deep sense of freedom at not having to be a clock watcher all the time.

 

A Stress Management Saying From The Wise

 

A wise man once said that money may come and go. If you lose your money, you can always make it back, but when you lose a minute, it’s gone forever. To live a life without regret is to know that you have followed the path of your heart and spirit without hesitation.

 

Don’t waste another moment letting the apparent lack of time be the reason you live a life of stress and anxiety. Stress is the biggest killer on the planet and you have the power to get rid of the majority of your stress just through learning some simple stress relief techniques to enjoy a happier, healthier, relaxed and more productive life.

 

To Your Great Life and Health,

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October 19, 2007

Stress Relief – Dealing with the day from Hell

Some days are so stressful that it feels like nothing else can go wrong.  You get a flat tire, you have a disagreement with your boss, you break a heal and to top it off you feel like crap.  It’s almost like this day has been created just to piss you off.

Of course these days pass and it’s important to remember to use different relaxation techniques to overcome the affects of your stressful day. 

Maintaining composure under Stress

Although it’s easy to lose composure and drop the ball when you’re under pressure, it’s important to hold it back.  If you lose it, the results can cause even more stress in the long run.  You may say something you regret or do something you’ll want to take back later.  Remember to stop and take a few breaths before you react when under times of pressure.  After all … a person under stress doesn’t always make the best decision.

Why Consistency is the Key

A stressful day isn’t an excuse to go to town with your credit card, eat whatever your heart desires, or ignore your usual routines.  These disciplines are important to maintain and should especially be followed when you’ve had a challenging day.  How would you feel if you had a bad day and you ignored you usual routine.  It may feel good at the time but in a few days you may experience even more stress and feel like a failure … unable to complete the tasks you’d set out.  Consistency means to complete your routine no matter the cost.  It’s important to be consistent, at all times.

Stress and Failure

Although consistency is the key, it doesn’t always turn out the best.  We all experience times of weakness and have felt the sting of failure.  When faced with failure you can do one of 2 things:

1.      You can spend days thinking of contemplating your failure or how you handled your stressful situation allowing it to compound on your current stress and depression or,

2.      You can get up, brush yourself off, reset your goals and keep going.

The past is exactly that … the past.  Sure we have to pay for previous decisions, but it’s up to us how we handle our future.

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