Control.  We all like to feel we have it in certain parts of our lives.  But is there such a thing as control.  Does it really exist? 

After all … when we begin to loose control we react in many different ways, most of which are linked directly to stress. Consider for one moment the symptoms of an anxiety attack.  Sure there’s the sweaty palms, increased heart rate, dizziness, short rapid breaths, and many other symptoms.  But what would be the cause?  It is loss of control.

If you’re a sufferer of anxiety panic attacks you know they begin when you feel like you’re loosing control.  This is understandable.  We all like to feel comfort or certainty over the outcome of certain situations.

Even 9 out of 10 cases of work related stress are from people feeling like they’ve lost control of their desired result.    

But in reality, control is just perception.  The world is spinning out of control, there’s no certainty you will wake up in the morning and you never really know what’s around the next corner.  So what am I saying?  Well one things for sure, I’m not trying to freak you out!  What I’m saying is when you try to control your life and things don’t go well the best way to handle it to relax. 

A good relaxation technique to use when things aren’t going the way you expected is to take a few quick breaths, count to ten and think of the best way to fix it.  Things do happen and it’s up to you how you react.  A level head and a level mind will achieve great things. 

One of the greatest stress management tips someone told me was to just let go every once in a while, especially when the pressure is building.  If you feel like it’s all building up try some stress relief techniques like listening to a stress relief CD or stress relief exercises.  This will make sure you releasing the tension and will prevent any long term build-up.